Friday, September 07, 2012
have u ever had a love hate relationship? not with your spouse or your partner. i dare not to go there.but it's a love hate relationship among your friends.
a little bird told me.this kind of relationship always happen among you and your friend.it's really hard at times to let them know that you don't like them at certain time.some people have friends who can talk bad about them behind their back.but in front of them, he/she's like an angel and acting all nice to them.but in other state, some people have friends who chose certain friends just to be nice to them.something like favoritism a.k.a pilih kasih.they call you best friend, BFF, till death do us part kind of friend.but yet,they talk about you behind your back.hmm..so what kind of friend is that?
some friends like to criticize you and your stuffs or anything you wear or people you like.for example the conversation was like :
a : what kind of bag do you wear?
b : oh,urm some calvin Kiah..i got it cheap at here..and here
a : oh,u should not buy Calvin Kiah..they material is not good.sometimes it makes the bag look cheap.
b : ohhh..i just buy something that I feel comfortable with.
so u see,some people will critics you straight into your face.i mean,i totally understand if that kind of people is actually being a true friend.and making sure you are not having/making the wrong decisions in buying stuffs etc.but the thing is..when it comes to THIS kind of person's bags,clothes etc...they,my friend,could not tolarate other people critics.it's not like they always made the right decision anyways! haha..i think you love them as your friend.but you hate them for their bad mouthing.LOL
and let say stuffs for wedding preparations.my my,everything that you choose must be like this and this.it's not good like this.and that.all like gosh! super duper excellent critism..wayyy better than American Idol judges i tell you!! but when it comes to them, "oh..no,i did not choose that because i don't like to brag about it..oh no, those kind of material sometimes stretched it will look bad on me.oh u should loose some weight, you might not fit into your wedding gowns.oh i don't wear corsets because there's nothing to be pushed or tighten" woaahhhh..hello miss fancy pants! who are you to judge people and yet, you did not let people judge you at the littlest point at all! kritik orang boleh, orang nak komen sikit pun takleh :P pfftt!!
do you have these kind of friends? well, i am not refering to myself (alhamdulillah..) but some people have friends like these.kesian.they are left with no choice but to endure it.because they are not just some strangers who you can slap right into their face.but it can be their closest friend,cousin,family etc.these kind of people,they should put a mirror in front of them.and face it,you are your own evil.and you should be your own critics.why must you go around and criticize people and putting people uncomfortable around you? they should realized that not all people can tolerate with criticism you know :D
so that kind of love hate relationship makes you feel like urghhhh!!i wish u don't exist in this world,kinda feeling.right? so what do you think? should this kind of people be loved?and forgiven? or just let them be cockiest and the snappiest people the can be.and make fun of everyone? hmmmm..it's hard right?
oh well,have a bless Friday.have a nice weekend! :) much love xx